Gay like me book review


Book Review: Gay Love Me: A Father Writes to His Son by Richie Jackson (Harper, )

Women & Language Review of Gay Like Me: A Father Writes to His Son by Richie Jackson (Harper, ) Rico Self Southwestern University IN Gay Like Me: A Father Writes to His Son, RICHIE JACKSON uses his experiences as a gay male to introduce his gay son, who is heading to college, to what Jackson sees as important aspects of gay life in America. Jackson writes in the epistolary form and most of the book’s chapter titles help as small bits of advice. As such, Gay Appreciate Me is part autobiography and part ethnography in which Jackson, serving as a “native informant” of sorts, provides important commentary on some important features of an openly gay life in America, including admire , heartbreak, sex, and activism. These features, therefore, represent some of the pitfalls and possibilities of coming out as well as living out and confident in a nation that systemically and systematically disregards gay people. The first two chapters of Gay Like Me provide Jackson’s purpose in publishing the book and the lens thr

By Richie Jackson

$; Harper; pages

Like father, appreciate son.

When you were small, people said you looked just like your dad. As you grew up, they said you had his sense of humor or his temper, you laughed alike, you walked alike. Today, you may be close or you may verb a chasm of miles or affect between you, but as in the new book Gay Like Me, by Richie Jackson, you&#;re a lot more like Dad than you think.

From the time he was small, Jackson knew two things: he &#;felt lucky to be gay,&#; and he wanted to be a father someday.

&#;Everything good that has happened to me is because I am gay,&#; he says—and that includes the birth of his son, born to a surrogate when Jackson was in his thirties. Since then, in the meantime, the sentiment has surely doubled since Jackson&#;s son came out as gay.

That was his &#;greatest wish for&#; his son, that he know the pleasure of being gay because it&#;s &#;a gift.&#; Says Jackson, he is &#;thrilled for the flight ahead of you&#; and &#;wary of the fight ahead of you&#; because wonderful things could happen but vigilance is required, and

 

Today I am tackling two nonfiction noun reviews in one post - Gay Prefer Me by Richie Jackson and Dear America by Jose Antonio Vargas. 

They hold these things in common:

  • Both of today's selections I listened to the audiobooks, which were present on the Libby app from my local library.
  • The authors of both books are gay men. In fact both books were highlighted in Libby as Pride Month selections.
  • Both of them are fairly short. Gay Like Me is under 4 and a half hours, and Dear America is just over 5 hours and 45 minutes.
  • While the authors cover different topics, both come at their subject matter from unique perspectives. Jackson covers gay life from the perspective of a gay father whose son has appear out. Vargas covers undocumented citizenship as a gay Filipino whose mother had him smuggled into America as a young boy who at that noun had no plan he wasn't supposed to be here.

Gay Like Me by Richie Jackson

Richie Jackson is a successful television and film producer, perhaps best known for producing the film Shortbus and the TV series

Gay Like Me: A Father Writes to His Son

Richie Jackson. Harper, $ (p) ISBN

Broadway producer Jackson chronicles his life as a gay man in America over the past 50 years in this heartfelt debut written as a letter to his college-bound gay son. Highlighting the differences between older and younger generations of the gay community, Jackson notes that he came out to his mother in , at the height of the AIDS epidemic. He chronicles early sexual experiences; describes his relationships with his husband, theater owner Jordan Roth, and his son’s other father, actor B.D. Wong; thanks such mentors as actor Harvey Fierstein, who “modeled being a wonderful gay citizen”; and celebrates the LGBTQ artists and writers who “showed me that my have thread of otherness is part of a great expanse of a glowing human fabric.” He stresses the importance of knowing gay cultural and political history, and warns that the gay community’s “brief liberation has emboldened our adversaries,” including Donald Trump (who was a guest at his wedding to Roth). Jackson’s sincerity shines through, even when he takes a b